High EQ Confused with Learning Disability?
June 8th, 2010 | Uncategorized | 4 Comments
In high school, I decided I wanted more time on my SATs so I might get a better score and might have a better chance at college scholarships. Though I never had trouble in school, I knew something was different about how I learned so I thought I could argue for more time on tests. The way the doc determined that I was ADHD was to have me click a button whenever a box appeared on a computer screen. People with ADHD go back and forth between being REALLY FAST and really slow clicking the button. That variation is what they used (at least at the time I was diagnosed) to determine the degree of ADHD. I was capable of hyper focusing, but they test administrator told me not to – just act how I did at school. The variation in my click times was huge.
Thinking about my students, past and present, many have had learning disabilities. Without any urging on my part, it has come up in conversation that 2 are in eye therapy, 3 have dyslexia, 2 are ADHD… I’m thinking that about 1/2 of my students have “learning disabilities” of some kind. So why are kids with “LD’s” so good with animals
Jim Crew, the Parelli’s farrier (healthy-stride.com), remarked to me once that an above average number of farriers are dyslexic. Jim is dyslexic and he’s one he is nothing short of amazing at analyzing a horse’s balance. He has an eye like a laser level.
I’ve always loved animals and one of the things I like best about them is that I can be very engaged with them. My students with “learning disabilities” seem to have an amazing ability to synch up with the animal they are working with. Linda Tellington Jones comments in one of her books that horse’s and human’s brains fire the same way during T-Touch massage. I suspect this happens to greater or lesser degrees during training depending on the talent of the trainer.
But how and why does this synching of brains occur? In Chinese Medicine, there is a concept called Wandering Hun. I don’t know much about it, but the first time I heard the words I was like, “I know that feeling!” What I have learned about wandering hun so far is that the hun is like your feelers. The hun goes and hangs out with other people’s huns and then reports back when called. I feel a good trainer can put her feelers out there and get a sense of what the horse is feeling, then pull them back. That way they have knowledge of the situation but don’t get sucked into what’s wrong with the horse. An even better trainer can put her feelers out there, creating a good space for both herself and the horse to be in.
Some people can’t keep their huns from wandering and they are extremely sensitive to energies around them. In Chakra theory, this would be like the third-eye having too much insight. It sees more than you want it to.
What? Third eye? That sounds like a bunch of nonsense… Or does it. We have to remind ourselves not to be put off by names that may sound woo-woo to us but may be plain as day in other languages. Have you ever seen a trainer or a student vigorously rubbing their foreheads like they are wearing an itchy hat? This seems to indicate over active frontal lobes, which often happens when the lesson is hard for teacher or student. Scientifically speaking, I believe the frontal lobes enable insight, internal visualization, and planning. To me this means the ability to “try on” different scenarios and see how they feel. It’s a proven fact that when we imagine something, our bodies produce chemicals as if it were really happening. But, what if instead of trying other energies on, they pulled you right into them like a vortex? Some people even see what others are seeing when this happens. That would be a third eye that is too open and a 6th chakra that needs a little TLC, or if you prefer, over-active frontal lobes.
At a basic level, the third eye and the wandering hun could be called empathy, and on the other, physic powers – literally putting yourself, or your energies, in someone else’s shoes. Personally I think everyone has the ability to do this, but my students who have “learning disabilities” seem to be especially good at it.
Yesterday I had emails from several folks (yay!) with ideas about the correlation between dyslexia and talent with animals. Almost all of them said it’s about being a visual thinker… I think that’s true, but I want to take it further… One of the individuals remarked that she had ADD and thinks that the way she looks around the world all the time is more like a horse. I’d buy that. I have often told others that my eyes work differently than most people’s.
I have the METT/SETT program for learning to rear human facial expressions faster. It was very easy for me, and I think would be very easy for these students. I’ve heard horses reaction times are 8 times as fast as humans. The METT/SETT program explains that the majority of human facial expressions happen are 1/25 or 1/50 of a second in duration. Maybe horse’s are even faster and that’s why ADHD people are so good with it? Maybe the movement of the eyes in people with dyslexia shares similarities with the movement of the eyes in people with ADHD, or maybe they move in different ways that are still more beneficial than what is common?
I’ve had this other thing on my mind that I’m sure ties in, but I’m not sure how… I keep thinking about the Silver Fox Experiment and breeding for tameness, which actually ended up looking like breeding for low adrenaline levels and juvenile qualities. However, I wonder if they were really breeding for ability to read human body language? Perhaps juvenile animals, like humans with spoken language, can learn any body language? Maybe the pups’ were friendlier because they understood that the humans were approaching passively? Maybe the pups had more ability to synchronize because they were under the human equivalent age of 7 when the hun arguably wanders most? The logic is not all there, but something I’m rolling around in my brain.
Now, how does that tie in with dyslexia and ADHD? Well, I don’t really know, but here are some more things I’m thinking about…
People claim folks with dyslexic and ADHD behaviors can grow out of them. Interestingly, most docs suggest around age 22 as the turning point. This would be about the time when people are supposed to start acting like grown ups. Have you ever noticed that people with ADHD and Dyslexia are often crowd favorites? The most friends, fun to be around, enthusiastic, but compassionate? When we like the way they are behaving, we call them fun-loving and gregarious. When we don’t, we call them childish and immature. On a similar note, the younger kids in a grade are often the most popular (except maybe when everyone is getting their driver’s licenses
) With both humans and animals, humans seem to subconsciously favor juvenile qualities. I would love to know more about the relationship between hun and juvenile qualities.
I’ve also heard that vision is a learned skill – people MUST have opportunities to learn to use their sight a certain way in order to be able to call upon it successfully that way when they need it. I found a vision therapy site saying that vision problems are so prolific now because kids don’t spend enough time outdoors. The two girls I mentioned who are in vision therapy spend a lot of time out doors, but maybe their brains are working in different ways (ways less compatible with traditional academic education) while they’re playing. They’re very astute kids, high emotional IQs I would wager. Maybe their eyes are looking at energy and an emotional cues, rather than seeking logical relationships?
Did you know that when forced to assign a color or a tone to certain words, objects, or feelings, most humans agree on the color or the shape? People who have synesthesia perceive theses associations in real time. They are consciously aware of the “extra” sense experiences rather than experiencing them subconsciously. I think most folks have the same experiences “sensies” have without taking notice of them. Perhaps students with dyslexia and other “LD’s” are responding to these other sensory experiences without realizing it.
My students with LD’s all seem to have eyes that move differently, and I would say all of them have a high emotional IQ. Perhaps there in lies the relationship… Studies show that the eyes of a person with autism latch on to things they know, like light switches, versus seeking human faces, which leads to people with autism being regarded as having a low EQ. On the contrary, kids with ADHD have eyes that move around a bunch. Maybe its this eye movement that is a “gift” equaling high EQ, particularly in relationships with animals whose perception of the world may be equally governed by emotional relationships and energetic triggers…So, now I need to go find out how eye sight works in children with dyslexia to see if the eye sight/energetic trigger theory works there as well. Now, I wonder if the eyes are working under the subconscious direction of the hun?
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