Q: I need help with my Pony Dream! I have a mare I do Parelli with and I have owned her for about a year and a half. She is a Paso Fino/Arab X. She has all normal horse gaits; no pacing!
She is about 17 and 14hh. I ride her almost every day and sometimes ride her bareback sometimes tacked up (mostly bareback!
). I have changed her from a full cheek slow twist snaffle to a broken kimberwick with a loose chain. She now almost constantly rides on a soft feel and everyday our leg yields and such get better! She is so much happier and relaxed and even her back pain went away once she learned how to use her body correctly.
So I bet you are wondering what our problem is! lol I haven’t cantered her under saddle in a while because, when I ask for the canter, she bolts off and runs like a wild mustang! She doesn’t buck, but she just runs and runs and won’t stop for a while. When I give her the signal to go, she goes into this HUGE trot then leaps into the canter! I don’t want to play tug of war with her and I don’t want her to transition like this or run like this. Now after a while of me pulling and trying to get her to slow down, she will slow down, but once I give her a loose rein as a reward, she takes advantage and starts running again. Her transitions at the walk and trot are lovely and smooth, but when it comes to cantering, all hell breaks loose… :/ Even on the lunge, her canter transitions are the same… she does calm down a lot sooner on the lunge though.
Oh and I want to teach her to jump but I don”t want to even start on that until we get our cantering down pat! And I am an experienced rider and don’t grip or anything when she does bolt off. Normally I’ll just go up into my 2-point or half seat and and half halt until she calms down some.

Cinnamon learning to cruise as part of his colt start
A: Nice to hear your story. I rode a pony that bolted with me almost every day from age 9-12 growing up so I can relate! It is good that you want to teach you mare to jump because the solution is right there – it’s got to be at least somewhat the transition into the canter that scares her, so landing in a canter from a jump could turn things around.
What I would do is practice having her longe/squeeze over small jumps and click and treat her for doing it slow and smooth. The slower and smoother the better! She should put out zero effort. Do your part to make sure that each step is so easy for her that she feels like a huge success.
It is important that you change directions almost every pass so she has to stop and think each time she goes over the jump. You definitely do not want her to circle over the jump more than 3 times in a row as that creates balance problems and her brain will start acting like a hamster in a wheel. You’ll know it’s going well when she can send out smoothly, squeeze over the jump, turn-face-wait, then squeeze back over it for a click and treat. They key to good longeing is to hold the rope like you hold your reins – have light contact and steer just like you would under saddle. It should be like you are riding her from the ground. A good policy is to longe your horse like there is someone on her back!
As soon as your mare has mastered little 6″ jumps, raise the height, but do it so gradually she never gets stressed. Keep it suuuuuper tidy. It shouldn’t take her more than 3 times over a new height to be earning a click and treat consistently every time after that. One click = about a quarter to a nickel sized amount of grain. For your treats, give yourself 1 cup of grain to use per 30 minutes. That’s how you’ll know your reinforcement schedule is on track.
After your mare can jump a jump and stop immediately on the other side when she hears your click, you can begin adding distractions. Anything extra is a distraction – the height, the spread, the number of laps, even her saddle or bridle. Try putting a tarp on her back, or in the take-off or landing area of the jump. You can also tie plastic bags to the jump or, if you really work up to it, to her mane or legs. If your mare has ever been jumped before, your job will be a lot harder because she may have already learned to rush jumps. Hopefully she hasn’t! This approach will still work even if she has bad memories of jumping, but you’ll just have to start with something easier, like simply longeing between a barrel and the rail, over a tarp, or between two empty jump standards.
After you feel like she’s 100% confident jumping at a trot, you will simply make the jump big enough that it is natural for her to land in a canter. When she does, you will immediately look at her hind end to disengage her and simultaneously click! If you take super small baby steps, which I would recommend, she should be able to jump at least 18″ at a trot before you set it up for her to land in a canter. Our 12-14h ponies can jump 2’6 barrels from a walk/trot and easily land at a walk/trot. To get them to canter afterwards, I have to take a bigger trot in and run with them after the jump, so after proper desensitization, you can make the jump pretty big before a canter happens.
To get her to actually land in the canter so you can reward it, you will want to add a ground pole to cause her to jump round. Jumping round naturally induces a canter. To get a really round, scopey jump, you set the ground pole to make an equilateral triangle so the take off point is the same distance from the base of the jump as the jump is tall. In other words, if the jump is 12″ tall, set the ground pole 9″ from the base of the jump (because the ground pole should be about 3″ wide). However, since your mare is a little hot, I would suggest starting with the ground pole a little closer to the base of the jump, like maybe only 6″ out. If she really gets lazy on you (not likely with her breeding!), then you can put a ground pole both on the take off and on the landing, setting both ground poles as far out as would make an equilateral triangle.
After your mare can land in the canter and stop immediately when she hears your click, start building a little duration. Have her canter for a few strides after, then click. Eventually, she’ll be able to canter around the circle, jump the jump at a canter, then get her treat. Make sure you train both directions evenly!
One more thing I just thought of – if your horse is not really clicker savvy, she would catch on quicker while riding. If she is super responsive to a click, teach from the ground first. If she doesn’t really orient to the sound of a click, then teach it with some basic riding and go back to the ground after she really stops when she hears the click.
With riding, what you’ll do is walk over a pole, click when it is right underneath her, and deliver the treat as soon as she stops. Walk back and forth over it until she tries to stop straddling it! Next walk over a 6″ jump and click her for just walking over it. Then trot a pole and click her as she is going over it so she stops immediately after. Change directions almost every time, or set up multiple poles in your arena so she isn’t circling over one jump. Most horses speed up more for a pole than for a 9″ little crossrail so don’t stay on the pole for long – move to a jump maybe even the same day you try the pole, or maybe the second day. You should be able to click immediately while going over the jump the very first time you trot at it and have her be so with you that she stops immediately for her treat.
If you can get her brain calm and focused on you, landing in a canter should happen naturally when you take enough speed into the jump and get enough height. The key is to make it so that she is so calm and loose that she just flows right into it and neither of you feels any anticipation.
Most bolters do much, much better in halter, bosal, or jumping hackamore than with a bit. I would consider riding her some in a halter and feeling things out. If you have got a good one-rein stop, you should be able to stop a horse at least as well, if not better, in a halter than in a bit. It may sound crazy, but it has been true for me. Bits tend to make horses reactionary.
If you have never jumped before, you’ll need to know about two-point and a crest-release. Just email me back if you’re not familiar with those ideas as they are essential.
Kali
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